Friday, April 2, 2010

Good Friday Reflection

From the archives...

... According to Father, this visiting priest spoke about the fourth station, Jesus Meets His Mother, with such tenderness and insight. I think, just about every mother would say that this station is the one they feel the most. It is the one point in the movie, The Passion, that is sure to have me bawling just knowing it is coming up. It is the station that brought about the "reversion" of a dear friend of mine who was struggling with the Church's teaching on Mary. Why do we love her so much? As she discovered on the island of Capri one Holy Week... because He loved her so much!

But this priest asked a question that I had never heard before, maybe you have... what was Mary thinking when she met Jesus? As a mom, we can imagine some of the pain she was going through. We know for a fact it was as though a sword was piercing her own heart. But what was she thinking? Father posited an answer.

She said a prayer. Please, help Him.

She said this quiet prayer. And it was answered. How do we know? Because the next station is Simon Helps Jesus Carry His Cross. Can't you just hear Mary begging God for this? Please help Him! She knew who He was and what He had to do, but she was still His mother and He was her son. Please, help Him!

And then the next station, Veronica Wipes the Face of Jesus. As a mom, it can be heart breaking to see your child's face altered due to a simple accident, even a childhood mishap that will naturally be corrected over time. This was her son's precious face, all covered with blood and sweat and dirt. Can't you hear the Blessed Mother crying inside... Let me see His beautiful face again!

This was the first time I had ever heard this interpretation and while I know that we can't know for sure, it really made sense to me. I have always been perplexed by the fifth station. Why did he need help? Who was Simon of Cyrene? Why was he chosen and what are we supposed to learn from this station? Yes, I've read the different interpretations and I think there are many scholarly people with plenty to say about the significance and importance of this station and the next, but I still. didn't. get it.

And St. Veronica? How did she make it through the crowds? Why would the guards have allowed this kindness after they had already inflicted so much pain? Were they distracted? Why?

This answer makes sense. All questions fade away.  

Please, help him.

God couldn't refuse the prayer of the Blessed Mother. He knows the tortures of a mother's heart and he hears her prayers.


  1. I've often wondered about this station. What a great perspective. Thank you for sharing!

  2. This is beautiful, Charlotte. It does make perfect sense.

  3. I loved this reflection last year, and it is still just as powerful this year...thank you.

  4. Charlotte,
    I read this last year on Holy Thursday... I remember it very clearly because I was in the process of miscarrying our baby boy. This reflection clicked SO much to say the least, and I just knew right then that we had to give our baby the name Simon. I love the reflection, I love the new light it sheds on Simon of Cyrene, and how appropriate it is for our little one. I like to think that he (and all little ones lost too soon) give such great consolation to our Lord's Heart, just as Simon of Cyrene must have on that road to the Cross.

    So, thank you. Thank you so much for posting this last year and again now. It blessed me greatly.

    Blessings to you and your family this Easter!


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